Is there just one way to live life? Is there just one “perfect” solution to every problem/situation? Does everyone have to follow a template? Finish high school, get a college degree, work at the top of your field, find a partner, get married, have a kid(s), and repeat the cycle all over again? If you ask me, I’d say that there is no “perfect” solution to a situation, not always, at least. When you end up in a situation that calls you to make a decision you have not had a chance to make before, it is natural